This gives me hope. If it takes only 3 weeks that leaves me plenty of time to switch dealers and place my order. The Ford rep on the phone said its taking 4 or more weeks.Yes it does take weeks. I had a similar situation in which I needed a converted order moved (no fault of the dealer, it was for personal reasons).
It literally took 3 weeks to the day for them to switch time stamps for me. I called once a week to the Ford hotline and talked to their Bronco Specialists. Every call, all I got was "The case is still active". So yeah that part gets frustrating.
On to you issue with both reservations, in the end, that's your choice how you handle them. Like you said, you like Jeeps too. So I guess either you'd be happy with.