1) Delays are all a part of the Tesla experience. They always over promise on timelines. SpaceX too while we're on the subject.maybe it's me but why are people losing their shit over a free gift? i mean for the scope of this there's not a ton of options. go ask what all of the cybertruck people got. all of the teslas are delayed, bmw starting it too. Look at car lots, empty.
throw it away or toss it on ebay and make a few bucks last time i checked we're still in a pandemic with global shortages. for a vehicle that is more or less a luxury, not a necessity (even if it is your dd).
not absolving ford at all, they dropped the ball hard. but the world won't end if your new, 40-80k vehicle gets delayed for 6-9 months. if you have scenarios that you HAVE to replace an existing vehicle go another route. i'm close to there but will hang in there as long as possible and then pivot if needed.
tl;dr: relax, you're getting free shit and a price lock.