Actually you do get that same stuff with the Extreme Packaged. IIRC it gets you..I get where you're coming from. Not knowing much about the Xtreme Recon package, I would assume it would look a lot different than the sport or sahara it's parked next to. Looks like a regular jeep with better wheels/tires. Doesn't look like you get much for $4k. Sasquatch on badlands is $2500 and is a pretty similar upgrade. (35's, beadlocks, better axle ratio, small lift).
A 2" lift, tailgate reinforcement, larger wheels, and I thought even gearing.
Many folks have said that to do that aftermarket would be over the price of the package.
But I still would confirm..that should be a Mopar Lift. You should be able to look that up and know exactly what comes in it.