It's a life changing experience - I was originally told I had less than 90 days to live - that was in 2003. Blessings to you and your family.I cannot put into words what it was like to rush my wife to the ER 3 times, to be told in an exam room at 3am that her cancer was in her lungs. To fear we only had months or a couple years. And then, three weeks later, to be told it WAS NOT cancer. I really hope you remember that every day in your interactions with your wife. Every day, even with problems, is a blessing. I suspect by your comment you already know.